Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast
Welcome to the Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast, which will give you practical marriage and relationship advice on physical intimacy, conflict resolution, sharing power, emotional intimacy, staying in love, and much more. Leave a voicemail 24/7 with your marriage questions at 303-578-0618 then Dr. Wyatt will respond to it on the next episode. Relationships can be tough work. Partners have different needs, different expectations, and different backgrounds. Therefore, it doesn't take long before relationships get turned around and headed in the wrong direction. When relationships struggle, intimacy stops. And when intimacy stops, couples feel even more disconnected, creating a vicious cycle. The Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast can help turn your relationship around. Each episode is full of insights, tips, and encouragement to grow your relationship. Dr. Wyatt Fisher is a licensed psychologist with a Master's and Doctorate in Clinical Psychology. He's been in private practice in Boulder, CO, since 2004, he's the author of the Total Marriage Refresh book, founder of the Total Marriage Refresh conference, and the developer of the Keep the Glow app. He's also been married since 1999 and his own relationship has been to the brink of divorce and back so he helps couples from both a personal and professional perspective. To learn more, go to his website at https://www.drwyattfisher.com
Dr. Wyatt Marriage Podcast
Stop ASSUMING Negative Intent With YOUR Partner
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Assuming negative intent in your partner can quickly erode trust and damage the foundation of a healthy relationship. When we automatically jump to conclusions or believe the worst about our partner’s words or actions, we shift from curiosity and understanding to defensiveness and blame. This mindset turns small miscommunications into larger conflicts and prevents genuine connection.
Most people act from a place of their own experiences, stress, or misunderstandings—not from a desire to hurt. Giving your partner the benefit of the doubt encourages open, honest communication and fosters emotional safety. It shows respect for their intentions and reinforces that you're on the same team, not opposing sides.
Choosing to assume positive or neutral intent allows space for empathy. Instead of reacting, you can pause, ask questions, and gain clarity. This approach builds emotional resilience and deepens mutual respect. Even in moments of disagreement, you're more likely to find common ground and move forward together.
Ultimately, not assuming negative intent is an act of love, patience, and maturity. It keeps your relationship rooted in trust, allowing it to grow stronger—even through challenges. It’s not about ignoring problems but approaching them with grace rather than suspicion.
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